Spooky But Safe: A Caregiver’s Guide to Halloween with Dementia

Posted on October 31, 2024

Woman carving pumpkin

PAC Lab Article Written By Brittany Armstrong

Halloween can be full of spooky fun, but it might also bring challenges if you’re caring for someone with dementia. With some planning and kindness, you can help them stay calm and comfortable on this festive night.

Keep the Routine
People with dementia feel safest when things are familiar. Try to keep the day as normal as possible by sticking to the usual schedule. Doing normal activities can help reduce confusion, especially if there are decorations or costumes around.

Limit Scary Surprises
Scary costumes, fake cobwebs, and spooky sounds might feel fun to us, but to someone with dementia, they can be upsetting or confusing. Try to keep Halloween decorations friendly and avoid scary masks or flashing lights.

Handle Trick-or-Treaters with Care
If lots of doorbell ringing could cause anxiety, think about turning off your porch light and putting up a “No Trick-or-Treaters, Please” sign. This can help keep the home quiet and peaceful. Another option is to sit together by the door, giving out candy together. This lets you keep an eye on things and even make trick-or-treating a friendly, shared experience.

Offer a Calm Space
If things get overwhelming, it’s helpful to have a quiet room where your loved one can rest. You might play soothing music or a favorite TV show. If it’s too noisy outside, consider closing the blinds and turning off outdoor lights.

Enjoy Simple Halloween Fun Together
Not all Halloween traditions have to be intense! You could carve a pumpkin, bake Halloween cookies, or even watch a funny Halloween show together like “Bewitched” or “The Addams Family” reruns. These activities can create happy memories without too much stimulation.

Halloween can be enjoyable for everyone with a little thoughtfulness and planning. Taking steps to keep things calm and cozy can help your loved one feel safe and included in the celebration.